Are you considering residential care for a loved one living with dementia? We understand that this can be an incredibly difficult and emotional decision. It’s natural to want to explore all your options and ensure the choice you make is the right one for both you and your loved one.
At Friary Care, we’re here to support you through this process. We’ll help you navigate the key questions—such as what care and support is available, how to recognise when the time might be right, and how to support your loved one and family members throughout the transition. Our goal is to provide clarity and reassurance so you can make a confident, informed decision.
What is Dementia?
Dementia is a term used to describe a group of symptoms that affect a person’s cognitive abilities, such as memory, thinking, problem-solving, and communication. It is most commonly caused by conditions that damage the brain – Alzheimer’s disease being the leading cause.
Dementia is a progressive condition, meaning symptoms typically worsen over time. In the early stages, signs may include mild forgetfulness and confusion. As the condition advances, individuals may experience significant challenges with daily tasks, communication, and decision-making, eventually losing the ability to manage everyday activities independently.
These changes can be deeply challenging—not just for the person living with dementia, but also for their loved ones. The journey often brings emotional and physical strain, making compassionate, patient, and professional support essential. As dementia progresses, tailored care becomes increasingly important to ensure comfort, dignity, and quality of life.
Signs That Someone with Dementia May Need Residential Care
Deciding whether it’s time for a loved one with dementia to move into residential care is never easy. It’s a deeply personal and emotional decision – but recognising the signs that they may need extra support can help guide you in making the best choice for their well-being and safety.
One of the most important factors to consider is whether your loved one is safe living at home. Are you increasingly concerned about their ability to manage daily life without supervision or assistance? If so, it may be time to explore residential care options.
Here are some common signs that may indicate additional support is needed:
- Frequent falls or increased risk of injury at home
- Forgetting important tasks, such as taking medication or turning off appliances
- Noticeable changes in behaviour, including confusion, agitation, or withdrawal from activities
- Struggling with personal hygiene or nutrition
- Wandering or getting lost, even in familiar surroundings
If any of these signs sound familiar, it may be worth having an open conversation with a care professional. Residential care can provide the safety, structure, and compassionate support your loved one needs – while offering peace of mind for you and your family.
Changes in Behaviour
A common sign that someone with dementia may benefit from residential care is a noticeable change in behaviour—whether gradual or sudden. As dementia progresses, individuals may begin to act in ways that are unfamiliar or challenging, both for themselves and for those around them.
Some behavioural changes may include:
- Increased restlessness or agitation
- Yelling or calling out unexpectedly
- Showing signs of suspicion or mistrust
- Following others closely (sometimes known as “shadowing”)
- Repeating the same questions or statements frequently
- These behaviours can be distressing for loved ones and may indicate that your loved one needs more structured, professional support.
It’s also essential to consider the well-being of caregivers. Providing care for someone with dementia can be physically and emotionally exhausting. If you or other family members are feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or unable to meet the growing needs of your loved one, it may be time to explore residential care as a supportive and sustainable solution.
If you’re uncertain about the next steps or simply need someone to talk to, our friendly team at Friary Care is here to help. Contact us for advice or to arrange a chat – we’re here to support you and your family every step of the way.
Types of Residential Care Options for Dementia
If you’re considering residential care for a loved one with dementia, understanding the different types of care available is an important first step. Each option offers varying levels of support depending on the stage of dementia and the individual’s specific needs. Knowing what’s available can help you make a more informed and confident decision.
- Assisted Living
Assisted living is ideal for individuals in the early to moderate stages of dementia who need support with daily tasks but still value a degree of independence. These communities provide a safe, structured environment with help available for activities such as bathing, dressing, and medication reminders—while still encouraging autonomy and personal choice. - Memory Care Units
Memory care units are specifically designed for people living with dementia. These facilities offer a secure setting, a consistent daily routine, and staff trained in dementia care. Residents benefit from specialised activities that support cognitive function and emotional well-being, making it a suitable option for those with moderate to advanced dementia. - Nursing Homes (Skilled Nursing Facilities)
Nursing homes provide 24-hour medical care and supervision for individuals with complex health conditions, including advanced dementia. In addition to medical support, residents receive full assistance with daily living tasks such as eating, mobility, personal hygiene, and medication management.
When evaluating residential care options, it’s helpful to ask specific questions, such as:
- What level of dementia training do staff receive?
- What is the staff-to-resident ratio?
- What kinds of activities and enrichment programmes are offered?
- How is safety and security managed, particularly for residents prone to wandering?
We also strongly recommend visiting potential care homes in person. Observing how staff interact with residents, the general atmosphere, and how your loved one responds to the environment can give you valuable insight into whether it’s the right fit.
At Friary Care, we’re here to help you navigate this journey. If you’d like guidance or to arrange a visit, our team is always happy to support you.
If Friary Care is on your list, please do not hesitate to contact us for a viewing at our home. Our caregivers will be happy to show you around and provide any information you need to make an informed decision.
How to Prepare For Transitioning into a Care Home
Supporting your loved one through the transition into residential care is a vital part of making the move as smooth and reassuring as possible. Open, honest communication is key—creating a space where emotions can be shared, questions can be answered, and everyone feels supported.
Talking about the move from home to a care setting can be difficult, especially if it’s met with uncertainty or fear. Approaching these conversations with empathy, patience, and reassurance can make a big difference. Acknowledge their feelings, listen to their concerns, and offer gentle reassurance about what lies ahead.
Focus on the positive aspects of the move—such as increased support, safety, companionship, and access to activities they may enjoy. Involve them in the decision-making process wherever possible. Giving your loved one a sense of control can ease anxiety and help them feel more at peace with the change.
To help them settle into their new environment, consider bringing personal items from home—like favourite blankets, cherished photos, or familiar ornaments. These little touches can go a long way in creating a sense of comfort and belonging in their new space.
Remember, this transition takes time – and it’s okay to take things step by step. At Friary Care, we’re here to support both residents and families through every part of the journey.
Supporting Your Loved One After the Move to Residential Care
The transition to a residential care home can be a significant adjustment for someone living with dementia. Leaving behind the familiarity of home may feel overwhelming, especially if they’ve lived in the same place for many years. However, with patience, reassurance, and consistent support, the process can become more manageable and comforting for both your loved one and your family.
It’s important to remember that settling into a new environment takes time. Simple acts—like surrounding them with familiar belongings, engaging in soothing activities, and offering gentle emotional support—can help reduce anxiety and provide a sense of stability. Whether it’s a favourite blanket, treasured photographs, or a familiar daily routine, these small comforts can make a big difference in helping your loved one feel at home.
Maintaining regular contact is also key. Whether through in-person visits, phone calls, or even letters, ongoing communication reassures your loved one that they’re not alone and that you remain an important part of their life. Your continued presence can be a great source of comfort and emotional security.
As someone who knows them best, your involvement in creating a personalised care plan is invaluable. Sharing insights into their preferences, hobbies, and personality can help staff tailor care that truly suits their needs—ensuring the highest quality of life possible.
Caring for Yourself as a Family Member
The emotional impact of moving a loved one into residential care extends to family members too. It’s normal to experience a mix of emotions—grief, guilt, sadness, even relief. You may worry that you’re letting them down, but choosing professional care is an act of love, compassion, and responsibility. It means you’re ensuring they receive the specialist support they need to stay safe and well.
Taking care of your own emotional wellbeing is just as important. Support groups, counsellors, or even conversations with others who’ve been through similar experiences can help you process your feelings and feel less alone. Sharing your thoughts in a safe, understanding environment can be incredibly healing.
Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. At Friary Care, we’re here not only to support your loved one—but to be there for you too.
Dementia Care Weymouth
At Friary Care, we understand that deciding to move a loved one into residential care is never easy – especially when dementia is involved. That’s why choosing a care home with specialist dementia support is so important. It offers peace of mind, knowing your loved one is receiving tailored care that enhances their comfort, dignity, and quality of life.
Our Weymouth-based care home is fully equipped to support individuals living with dementia, with a compassionate, highly trained team experienced in meeting a wide range of needs. We provide a safe, nurturing environment where residents can feel at ease and supported every step of the way.
If you’re considering this transition for your loved one, we’re here to help. Our caring team is always happy to offer advice, answer questions, or simply have a friendly, understanding chat.
To find out more or to discuss whether Friary Care might be the right fit, please don’t hesitate to contact Peter Fry on 01305 787811.
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